I don’t think that’s what my friend meant. As I said, I wasn’t going to give specific examples but she did explain what she meant and it had to do with things in general, as in, supporting her endeavors, events, creative ideas etc, as in, ME supporting HER as a friend, which to be honest, I didn’t think was the case.
As far as sharing, she’s pretty much the only person I shared this information with. So that’s why that came as a bit of a shock. I’ve never been one to share but at the same time, if you can’t do that with your friends, then where does the ‘cultivating friendship’ situation come in? Isn’t that supposed to be part of it?
I have heard people say that about volunteering, that’s good advice, thank you for your comment, appreciate it!!